“Weird” I guess is the best description I can use for the feelings I have had the last 2 days, after learning that Ronnie James Dio died of stomach cancer on Sunday morning, I was bewildered at my sadness towards it. Now, I’m not trying to paint myself as some alpha male tough guy who won’t show his feelings, but I never felt like this over someone whom I had never met. When George Carlin died I was very saddened but I think more for the loss the world took losing its greatest comedic mind and my favorite of all time. I met George Carlin and that I think, made it easier, although I will miss hearing his views on modern events, the earthquakes ravaging our planet lately, 2 at a time, or even his opinion on having a black president (he died June 2008). Being a comedian and a huge fan of Carlin and his work, it confused me even more that THIS was truly something that made me blue. Then it made sense, I always would bitch how comedy never got the same love and accolades as music, I never understood why, as much as comedy has shaped my life and helped me find my calling, MUSIC, touched my soul and took me to places I could never go to in this atom-filled world as we know it. It inspired me to do better and achieve things, like “get over it” when some girl shreds your heart, trying to hit personal goals, or just putting you in a better mood by just hearing it. As much as I adore what comedy does, it doesn’t quite match up to what music can do for someone. So, where do I start? I purchased my 1st record (YES, I said record) at 12 or 13, it was Foreigner 4 ,a very good rock album, I wanted to buy J. Geils Bands “Freeze Frame” but my mom wouldn’t let me get it because they a song called “piss on the wall”, so it was the first (thanks mom, I think if got Freeze Frame I would have taken a different path of music) A year later I wanted to get “Crazy Train” by Ozzy but they were out of “Blizzard of Oz”, so I got “Diary of a Madman”, Ozzy’s 2nd album, and my love for heavy metal was born! I’ll never forget the day I saw Dio for the 1st time, I was at my best friend’s house (Tim Hale) and we were just hanging out and I heard some song from the other room, when I walked in, the video “Rainbow in the dark” was playing on MTV and just about over, I was MESMORIZED, the guitars, the keyboards, and of course …the voice. I asked Tim “who is this?” And I was still far away from the TV and the credits for the video came up and I saw like Ronald something DIO (I pronounced it DIE O) and I looked at the album title and said to Tim “Is Holy River is the name of the album by this DYE-O guy?”. And Tim was like “I think its Holy Diver” and I had to get it ASAP. Soon thereafter the nickname “Joe Dio” was given to me.
All throughout High School I was called that, amongst other things, but in a strange way it gave me an identity, I was a DIO/OZZY fanatic, although I looked more like Ozzy with the hair, it was always “Joe Dio!!!!!!!!!” and the “horns” that were thrown my way by passing friends in the hallways. Some people may say Dio was a tad corny with his lyrics about dragons and wizards and rainbows, but look at the FILMS today, with “Harry Potter”, “Lord of the Rings” and stuff like that, it seems pretty relevant even today. Dio didn’t just sing about mythical creatures, it was his way of telling tales of woe, battling what life deals to you and historical moments. My best friends Ernie Mathews, Cliff Strecker and I would sit around and try to decipher what Dio songs lyrics meant, what’s the best solos, rip each other if we got lyrics wrong and played “air band” together, (the original “rock band” game I guess, except we were mongoloids and used brooms and utensils). I will not bore you with song after song that I love, but one song of his I have used for inspiration from the age of 16 to the present day, its one of his more “poppy tunes” from the movie “Vision Quest” called “Hungry for heaven”. It’s a cornballish type of “go out and get what you want in life” kind of number, but it was SO huge to me, kept me focused on the things I wanted to achieve. Today, when I hear it, the motivation it lends to me to progress in life, is still there and is immeasurable. I started to discover earlier Dio stuff material (Elf, Rainbow, and Black Sabbath) and was gutted with love for the music he put out and became a fan of his older stuff too. To this day “Heaven and Hell” by Black Sabbath is my favorite song of all time. It epitomized the “Dio” essence…dark, heavy riffs, amazing lyrics filled with cryptic meanings and messages, mixed in with angelic sounds of plucking guitar strings at the end, and of course, throughout the whole piece, his pulverizing, bomb spraying, hypnotic voice. Regrettably I only saw him twice in concert, I just have never been a big concert goer, but I wanted to see him with “Heaven and Hell” doing all the DIO/SABBATH songs, but I guess I just put it off and now ill never be able to see him again. His death was probably most upsetting because I never took the time and opportunity to see him as much as I should have and now I truly am regretting it. If anything, this taught me that you shouldn’t put off things, whether it’s seeing family, friends, and a beautiful view of the Grand Canyon or your favorite singer in concert. I always used to goof on people that would cry at the death of a celebrity, as much as any death is a loss and sad (except for the person who invented “auto tuning”) but I giggled at people crying over them, and thought, “You don’t even know the person, how could you really cry?” For the 1st time I think I understand, although I wasn’t crying like a starving baby, I was genuinely upset and had watery eyes when I heard his songs or people on the radio mentioning his passing all throughout the day. When someone inadvertently, affects your life in a positive way, especially during your adolescence years and beyond, it stays with you forever. So I would like to thank Ronnie James Dio, for being a constant in my life through his music, his voice and his passion for life. Giving me years of great memories through fun times and low ones. |
YOU ROCK, love you man. RJD 1942-2010
(This was Written dec 07 and i just found it and thought it was worthy of putting on my blogerthingy)
Well another Christmas has come and gone and I have to say it was not a bad day. Spending some time with my family who I get to see on a ( decent ) regular basis wasn’t bad. Being a comic Instead of just ranting about shit and burping out negativity as I usually do, It was a fun few hours doing the exchanging gifts thing, ( 3 gifts…count em,,3) and just hanging around my brothers BEAUTIFUL fucking house.( I rent the basement of my dads house, another story for another day). We chuckled at each others shortcomings and never acknowledged our positive traits.My sister is a nervous wreck like most of our older generation kin and she hasnt realized how bad she is, my mother is a filter free, self abosrbed, interrupter of conversations, my dad is a 1/2 deaf ginuea who cant seem to get over the past about his and my mothers relationship ( divorced 23 yrs ago), my brother who is an obsessed maniac about most things and has NO IDEA he is crazy like the rest of us, and finally me the financial black sheep of the family who everyone wants around so I can “break the ice “with my horrid sense of humor. THAT is whats Christmas is all about, getting together with family, ripping into each other, and knowing that we do love each other, faults and all. Considering my parents were HORRIBLE communicationists ( if that’s a word) I think me and my sibs are doing ok,and I think having that self awareness is a trait that we all need to have (that I have way too much of). So if you spent a little time with your family and wondered, “what the fuck am I doing here?” Mission accomplished, now go spend new years with some friends who really dont give a fuck about you unless things are rosey and peachy in their own lives, that’s good old fashioned fake fun, and we love every minute of it.
Talented,relevant,insightful,under exposed and funny. All words NOT used to describe Kathy Griffen. Now before I go sounding like some bitter comic blasting someone famous for reasons mainly driven by jealousy, I’ll lie and say NOT ME. Now, her being a stand up comic I will always give slack because I love and respect comics for what we do, but she is what I feel is part of the vanilla-faced meltdown of stand up comedy in America today. Besides the over exposure of comics who fit the “mold” of reality tv ( last comic standing) etc or just the mundane stand up specials that feature comics who apparently are being pushed to be sitcom or movie stars because of a “certain look” or stereotype they are looking to vomit onto network television.
Back to ol’ construction face,I don’t know what type of comedy KG does (this lazy ass country is obsessed with shortening and abbreviating every fucking thing we can get our lazy paws on, so I’ll join the “poison the kool aid” party and abbreviate her stupid name also). It’s so horrendous mainly because it’s that lame “I’ll make fun of hollywood and drop names like a homeless person dropping bars of soap and job applications” type of comedy. People who want to hear about J-Lo and Brooke Shields ar e not people who enjoy true stand up, touching on current events as a comic is one thing, but the constant barrage of stories and “amusing anecdotes” about them is sickening.
What about the Show on Bravo, The “D” list or whatever its called, am I being melodramatic or is that show on 24 hours a day? If Richard Pryor was on that much people would be like “get that talented funny mutha fukka off the air!!
Who is watching and supporting this show you may ask? I don’t know anyone who enjoys her boring red carpet stories and her fake self deprecating “I’m not a real actress” bullshit. Let’s see, I gather a lot of gay fellas watch her show(s) ( I don’t know how many she has anymore). She always seems to be in the vicinity of a few dick grabbers so I assume gays enjoy her stuff. Maybe they like her because of the “Cher” connection. Lets face it, Kathy is looking more like Rocky Dennis from the movie “Mask” everyday and we all know who played his drunken, slutty, biker wanna be mom, CHER! I always thought of gay men as guys with good taste and cleanliness, and I still believe that, even though gay men in america have single handedly kept Madonna relevant and in business for the last 15 years and made Barbara Streisand concert tickets an obscene $1000 a ticket. Who else may enjoy it, women? I don’t know for sure, but if it wasn’t for women and gay men there would be no boy bands besides “The Monkeys” in the history of music. So what is her appeal? Is it the fact that so many comics today try to be “shocking” and dirty ( which i have no problem with) and since most of middle Americans are hypocrites who around the water cooler or at lunchtime will spew off horrible insensitive jokes and laugh, but when a comic does it he is performing in “bad taste ” or for shock value and are appalled? Who knows, I think the combination of the pussification of our country and the boatload of new comics trying to out-shock each other (being influenced by amazing comics who are clever and filthy) can be a reason. Whatever the reason, people like KG have given the art of stand up a boring bland name dropping kinda name. Let’s hope KG and garbage bag talent like Tila Teqila end up doing Geico commercials for cocaine and shaking an empty can of Dole’s Pineapple Chunks feverishly for spare change in Central Park while singing old Foghat tunes. KG will be popular until Americans get sick of this tabloid obsessed media driven horseshit like TMZ. (that’s for another blog) So let’s take a stand against boring celebrity driven humorless stand up comedy and get back to the likes of LATE GREAT LEGEND GEORGE CARLIN. 1937-2008 let’s never forget icons like him, Christ do we need guys like him now more than ever.
With much love
Ok I said i would never do this again, but I was asked to do it for a website so I figured I would put some on my own page since no one will see it on that website. Call me a hypocrite, whoopdi do, sue me.
Just from the title alone one might think this is some rant from a guy who has been spammed once too often, by “models who want to meet and actually hang out with me,” technical problems or just sick of the myspace crap that goes on. Not at all, I don’t mind myspace even with the 10 billion bands from other planets who want to be my friend and want me to “listen to this.” Being a comic, I use the myspace thing to promote myself also and realize its power. Here is my issue..TILA TEQUILA? Someone please explain to me who this praying-mantis-in-a-bikini is and WHY does she have a show? From what I gather she is a model who has the most friends on myspace, and that warrants getting a TV show? I may be partial to artists being a comic myself, so when I see bands, comics and writers reaping the benefits of myspace I love it, but TILA TEQUILA? Why do we need another “hard working” model on television spewing simplicity by the gallons onto the airwaves by having a reality based show about girls and guys fighting over some “6” who has nothing interesting to say while the whole set is crying during the duration of the show? I don’t know, I just know a bunch of great talents out there who deserve to have some sort of shot at a television show. I’m not even talking about me,TRUST ME on that, I wold never in a million years bring up the subject of doing a show about myself. But back to the bisexual lemur, if having a zillion friends on myspace can get you a reality dating show on MTV, lets all just friend request everyone on Tila’s page and maybe we can have a show that rivals hers on the Douchebag network. The reason all these contestants on these shows walk around with hardly any clothes on is because NO ONE WOULD WATCH OR CARE OTHERWISE. So lets think of a name of our new show, how about the Joe Conte Show? A reality dating show where a group of girls who look like the chicks from 90210 going through menopause have to fight, do stupid tasks and answer silly Joe Conte trivia. Like… how much does Joe spend on massage parlors weekly? How many times in a month has Joe fucked things up with a girl because he thinks she doesn’t really like him, and is just trying to sell him a timeshare? And why doesn’t Joe get circumcised as an adult to help raise his self esteem a notch? I think THAT would be a great show, some honesty, real life questions and a smidge of humor. I say lets do it. So I figure this much, if TILA WHATEVER THE FUCK DRINK SHE PASSED OUT FROM THE NIGHT BEFORE can put the executives at MTV under some voodoo spell and convince them to do her show, then let’s either do my show,or redo Tila’s by having her on the Discovery Channel getting chased through the Serengeti by a group of molested-as-chlidren game show contestants with appetites for an untalented, gamey myspace whore.